{"id":45,"date":"2010-11-30T19:48:55","date_gmt":"2010-11-30T19:48:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lakeandhomes.com\/blog\/?p=45"},"modified":"2010-11-30T19:48:55","modified_gmt":"2010-11-30T19:48:55","slug":"the-folded-napkin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lakeandhomes.com\/blog\/the-folded-napkin\/","title":{"rendered":"The Folded Napkin"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<div>\n<blockquote>\n<div>\n<div id=\"yiv1381837258yiv1788312038yiv302486030AOLMsgPart_2_631e1ff0-2a50-4713-ba5f-2cd6d848dce4\">I don&#8217;t know where this originated, and I\u00a0 don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s\u00a0true&#8230;but, I  would like to think so<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong><strong><span style=\"font-family: Comic Sans MS; font-size: large;\">The  Folded Napkin &#8211; A Trucker Stop Story.<\/span><\/strong><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;\"> <\/span><\/div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div><strong><span style=\"font-family: Comic Sans MS; font-size: large;\">If  this doesn&#8217;t light your fire, your wood is wet!<\/p>\n<p>I  try not to be biased, but I had my doubts about hiring Stevie. His placement  counselor assured me that he would be a good, reliable busboy. But I had never  had a mentally handicapped employee and wasn&#8217;t sure I wanted one. I wasn&#8217;t sure  how my customers would react to Stevie.<\/p>\n<p>He  was short, a little dumpy with the smooth facial features and thick-tongued  speech of Downs Syndrome. I wasn&#8217;t worried about most of my trucker customers  because truckers don&#8217;t generally care who buses tables as long as the meatloaf  platter is good and the pies are homemade.<\/p>\n<p>The  ones who concerned me were the mouthy college kids traveling to school; the  yuppie snobs who secretly polish their silverware with their napkins for fear of  catching some dreaded &#8216;truck stop germ&#8217;; the pairs of white-shirted business men  on expense accounts who think every truck stop waitress wants to be flirted  with. I knew those people would be uncomfortable around Stevie so I closely  watched him for the first few weeks&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I  shouldn&#8217;t have worried. After the first week, Stevie had my staff wrapped around  his stubby little finger, and within a month my truck regulars had adopted him  as their official truck stop mascot.<\/p>\n<p>After  that, I really didn&#8217;t care what the rest of the customers thought of him. He was  like a 21-year-old in blue jeans and Nikes, eager to laugh and eager to please,  but fierce in his attention to his duties. Every salt and peppershaker was  exactly in its place, not a breadcrumb Or coffee spill was visible when Stevie  got done with the table.<\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div><strong><span style=\"font-family: Comic Sans MS; font-size: large;\">Our  only problem was persuading him to wait to clean a table until after the  customers were finished. He would hover in the background, shifting his weight  from one foot to the other, scanning the dining room until a table was empty.  Then he would scurry to the empty table and carefully bus dishes and glasses  onto his cart and meticulously wipe the table up with a practiced flourish of  his rag.<\/p>\n<p>If  he thought a customer was watching, his brow would pucker with added  concentration. He took pride in doing his job exactly right, and you had to love  how hard he tried to please each and every person he met.<\/p>\n<p>Over  time, we learned that he lived with his mother, a widow who was disabled after  repeated surgeries for cancer. They lived on their Social Security benefits in  public housing two miles from the truck stop. Their social worker, who stopped  to check on him every so often, admitted they had fallen between the cracks.  Money was tight, and what I paid him was probably the difference between them  being able to live together and Stevie being sent to a group home. That&#8217;s why  the restaurant was a gloomy place that morning last August, the first morning in  three years that Stevie missed work.<\/p>\n<p>He  was at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester getting a new valve or something put in his  heart. His social worker said that people with Downs Syndrome often have heart  problems at an early age so this wasn&#8217;t unexpected, and there was a good chance  he would come through the surgery in good shape and be back at work in a few  months.<\/p>\n<p>A  ripple of excitement ran through the staff later that morning when word came  that he was out of surgery, in recovery, and doing fine.<\/p>\n<p>Frannie,  the head waitress, let out a war hoop and did a little dance in the aisle when  she heard the good news.<\/p>\n<p>Bell  Ringer, one of our regular trucker customers, stared at the sight of this  50-year-old grandmother of four doing a victory shimmy beside his table.<\/p>\n<p>Frannie  blushed, smoothed her apron and shot Bell Ringer a withering look.<\/p>\n<p>He  grinned. &#8216;OK, Frannie , what was that all about?&#8217; he asked..<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;We  just got word that Stevie is out of surgery and going to be okay.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I  was wondering where he was. I had a new joke to tell him What was the surgery  about?&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Frannie  quickly told Bell Ringer and the other two drivers sitting at his booth about  Stevie&#8217;s surgery then sighed: &#8216;Yeah, I&#8217;m glad he is going to be OK,&#8217; she said.  &#8216;But I don&#8217;t know how he and his Mom are going to handle all the bills. From  what I hear, they&#8217;re barely getting by as it is.&#8217; Bell Ringer nodded  thoughtfully, and Frannie hurried off to wait on the rest of her tables. Since I  hadn&#8217;t had time to round up a busboy to replace Stevie and really didn&#8217;t want to  replace him, the girls were busing their own tables that day until we decided  what to do.<\/p>\n<p>After  the morning rush, Frannie walked into my office. She had a couple of paper  napkins in her hand and a funny look on her face.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;What&#8217;s  up?&#8217; I asked.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I  didn&#8217;t get that table where Bell Ringer and his friends were sitting cleared off  after they left, and Pony Pete and Tony Tipper were sitting there when I got  back to clean it off,&#8217; she said. &#8216;This was folded and tucked under a coffee  cup.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>She  handed the napkin to me, and three $20 bills fell onto my desk when I opened it.  On the outside, in big, bold letters, was printed &#8216;Something For Stevie&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Pony  Pete asked me what that was all about,&#8217; she said, &#8216;so I told him about Stevie  and his Mom and everything, and Pete looked at Tony and Tony looked at Pete, and  they ended up giving me this.&#8217;<br \/>\nShe handed me another paper napkin that had  &#8216;Something For Stevie&#8217; scrawled on its outside. Two $50 bills were tucked within  its folds. Frannie looked at me with wet, shiny eyes, shook her head and said  simply: &#8216;Truckers!!&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>That  was three months ago. Today is Thanksgiving, the first day Stevie is supposed to  be back to work.<\/p>\n<p>His  placement worker said he&#8217;s been counting the days until the doctor said he could  work, and it didn&#8217;t matter at all that it was a holiday. He called ten times in  the past week, making sure we knew he was coming, fearful that we had forgotten  him or that his job was in jeopardy.<\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><strong><span style=\"font-family: Comic Sans MS; font-size: large;\">I  arranged to have his mother bring him to work. I then met them in the parking  lot and invited them both to celebrate his day back.<\/p>\n<p>Stevie  was thinner and paler, but couldn&#8217;t stop grinning as he pushed through the doors  and headed for the back room where his apron and busing cart were waiting.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Hold  up there, Stevie, not so fast,&#8217; I said. I took him and his mother by their arms.  &#8216;Work can wait for a minute. To celebrate you coming back, breakfast for you and  your mother is on me!&#8217;<\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div><strong><span style=\"font-family: Comic Sans MS; font-size: large;\">I  led them toward a large corner booth at the rear of the room.<\/p>\n<p>I  could feel and hear the rest of the staff following behind as we marched through  the dining room. Glancing over my shoulder, I saw booth after booth of grinning  truckers empty and join the procession. We stopped in front of the big table.  Its surface was covered with coffee cups, saucers and dinner plates, all sitting  slightly crooked on dozens of folded paper napkins &#8216;First thing you have to do,  Stevie, is clean up this mess,&#8217; I said. I tried to sound stern.<\/p>\n<p>Stevie  looked at me, and then at his mother, then pulled out one of the napkins. It had  &#8216;Something for Stevie&#8217; printed on the outside. As he picked it up, two $10 bills  fell onto the table.<\/p>\n<p>Stevie  stared at the money, then at all the napkins peeking from beneath the tableware,  each with his name printed or scrawled on it. I turned to his mother. &#8216;There&#8217;s  more than $10,000 in cash and checks on that table, all from truckers and  trucking companies that heard about your problems. &#8216;Happy Thanksgiving.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Well,  it got real noisy about that time, with everybody hollering and shouting, and  there were a few tears, as well.<\/p>\n<p>But  you know what&#8217;s funny?<br \/>\nWhile  everybody else was busy shaking hands and hugging each other, Stevie, with a  big, big smile on his face, was busy clearing all the cups and dishes from the  table&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>Best  worker I ever hired.<\/p>\n<p>Plant  a seed and watch it grow.<\/p>\n<p>At  this point, you can bury this inspirational message or forward it, fulfilling  the need!<\/p>\n<p>If  you shed a tear, hug yourself, because you are a compassionate person.<\/p>\n<p>Well..  Don&#8217;t just sit there! Send<br \/>\nthis story on! Keep it going, this is a good  one!<\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div><em><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: x-small;\">Blessed  are those who can give\u00a0 without remembering and take without  forgetting.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t know where this originated, and I\u00a0 don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s\u00a0true&#8230;but, I would like to think so The Folded Napkin &#8211; A Trucker Stop Story. If this doesn&#8217;t light your fire, your wood is wet! I try not to be biased, but I had my doubts about hiring Stevie. 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